I certainly can see your frustration. Never think you are bothering Support, that is their job. . . . Without you, they don't have a job.
One thing you need to be sure is to place the font files in the right place. That is probably your problem.
Save them in the same place as mine (I have the same system as you have noted):
C:\\program files (x86)\annthegran\alphabet xpress\fonts
Then right click and press Extract. When you reopen AX, they will be there.
Pat, The Avid Embroiderer
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