Hi, Brandy and welcome to ATG.
First - do not share software - it is illegal. I can understand how you and your husband may not have known this, but the person who shared should have known.
You can download your own free trial of Embird at http://www.secretsof.com/content/1798
Dealers always want you to buy their products, but they don't always know how to use what they sell when it comes to software.
Embird is a good product and is used by many. I believe one thing that makes it so appealing is that it can be downloaded and you can start with the basic and then add what they refer to as "plug-ins" as you progress and what to add more features to the product.
Some fonts come in small sizes and you may not need to re-size.
Be Careful what you make for resale - licensed products, like Disney is a no-no. There are some foreign sites that have all the Disney characters and more, but they are bootleg designs and not legal in the US and possibly some other countries that have copyright laws.
Always check the information where you download. Some companies and designers do not allow the designs for use other than personal and some are OK with you using their products on items that you will be selling - with limitations.
Feel free to ask any question you like. I do not use Janome, but there are some members who do and I am sure tell will be happy to share information with you.
Pattiann