Hi Cathy! I hear a lot of frustration in your post. I do understand, I felt the same way 10 years ago when I began. Right now I am trying to do a towel that has me tearing out my brown hair by its gray roots. Learning and growing is forever and I personally would not have it any other way.
The learning curve (different for everyone) can be very steep depending on your computer knowledge and other variables. Many of the questions can be answered through Suport (Contact Us at the bottom of any screen) and many are answered by the knowledgeable people here.
One thing that I have found about computers and embroidery both is that the question being asked is never quite what you need to know. Your questions is a little different than that being asked. Your questions does not appear in the FAQs. Your issue is uniquely yours.
So, ask questions, read, read, read and then try, play and work with your machine. There is no way to put all the answers into a single place to help all.
Your post has some issues, ask a single question for now and let us try to help. Over all, EM people are really helpful and supportive!
Pat, The Avid Embroiderer
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