I get by with a little help from my friends

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jen22470 — Sat, 23 May 2009 16:13:42 GMT

Glad to see that you are able to become busy again. Sorry to hear about your loss. That is such a wonderful picture of Bill. God Bless From Kansas

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dreamstitcher2 — Sat, 16 May 2009 20:22:17 GMT

Ann,

Bless you for all the wonderful help and guidance you have given to others over the years. Now, it comes back to you in this time of grief, and loss. Bill is not far away. He is in your thoughts, and all around you. He is in your heart. Time will change how you see things around you, but it's true- the pain of losing a loved one will always be there. You will eventually be able to see the light beyond the pain, but for now, one day at a time is a good way to deal with it. It's a very hard thing to do, but we keep on going. You have a community that you and Bill built up together, with a vision that reached out to a whole world! He supported you, and cheered you on to do the wonderful things you are doing! He is with you in spirit, and we all will continue to be supportive and cheer you on! We can't fill his shoes, but we can help to give you a little sunshine each day!

Thank you, Ann, for sharing with us, your family, your life, your hobbies, and passions...and your great love with Bill. We will always treasure this gift you have given to the world. We honor you and Bill, and send our condolences on his passing.

With much love,

Dawn Winn

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grammyw — Fri, 15 May 2009 13:22:06 GMT

I have been to your site many times. Now I am taking the time to do some reading. I am sorry for your loss. I too have a soul mate that I just can't imagine being without but remember that our heavenly savior is with you each step of the way. I know every place you look you see a part of Bill. My husbad does so many hand made projects around our house that he is everywhere. He even built a bird feeder outside my sewing/embroidery room that the squirels are trying to invade. You just have to keep on keeping on. The Lord will be with you every step of the way.

Angie Williams in TN

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jnbmd — Fri, 15 May 2009 02:49:07 GMT

Ann

you and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers. You have given so much to all of us MEers. I wish we could give back as much. Just know we care.

Marsha

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pat71896 — Tue, 12 May 2009 18:40:33 GMT

I have been rereading all these loving thoughts.

You are blessed and loved because of all the work you have done over the years.

You are an inspiration to all of us. Bill is very proud of you too.

Pat

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LaRueJ — Sun, 10 May 2009 19:35:53 GMT

Thank you, Ann, just for being YOU. You have done so very much for the ME community. Please know that we are all thankful to have you.

Your approach to doing just one thing a day is an inspiration that I will tuck away, hoping I will never need it.

Thank you again,

LaRue Jones

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MissTrilby — Sun, 10 May 2009 10:23:35 GMT

Ann, I have not experienced the loss of a loved one; still, my heart goes out to you at this time. Please know that Bill will always be with you in spirit and he awaits the time when you and he are together again. Meantime, know that your friends on earth care about you and pray for you in your time of grief.

Miss Trilby

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marsuz — Sat, 09 May 2009 23:54:25 GMT

Ann, it will get easier but somehow it never gets better. I still miss my bestfriend and soulmate after 12 years. When you are with one person for so long they are part of you and believe me when I tell you they are still part of you. I believe the best part.

Marge

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MARMEE03 — Sat, 09 May 2009 18:53:29 GMT

Ann, I am praying for you as you walk the road alone now. But knowing that God will be with you. You have encouraged me in my sewing so much. and I thank you for that. I loved the picture and know that it must bring you some comfort to share it with us. Thanks again for who are and all you do for all of us that enjoy sewing.

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Jillings — Sat, 09 May 2009 18:47:06 GMT

Ann I am so sorry that you lost your beloved, but you are just parted for a while, you will catch glances of him and chat with him along the way. He is just a breath away. Dont be in a hurry to get part your grief instead let it heal your heart. May God of all love bless you and keep you. Linda Brooksville Fl.

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cme — Sat, 09 May 2009 17:27:30 GMT

Ann: I have not been on this site for a very long time. When I came on today and read that you had lost Bill I was so very sorry for you. I loved hearing about your trips together and all the good times couples should have.

My family and I send our condolences. You are right to take one day at a time. I work for a lawyer and have seen many people lose their loved ones. Some have tried to rush the grieving process. It does not work.

if ever you need anything, all your friends here would be more than happy to come to your aid.

cme

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g_robb53 — Sat, 09 May 2009 17:05:25 GMT

As time passes and your heart has time to heal, my your fond memories of Bill bring you strength. In the meantime, you have many family, friends, and supporters who are lending you theirs. You certainly have mine.

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mcjem — Sat, 09 May 2009 16:29:39 GMT

when my Dad passed over in 1961, my Mom received this poem, I've keppt a copy of it all these years:

"What mean you by this weeping to break my very heart? We both are in Christ's keeping, and therefore cannot part.

"You there, I here, though parted, we still at heart are one; I only just in sunshine, the shadow scarcely gone.

"What though the clouds surround you, you can the brightness see, tis only a little way, that leads from you to me.

"I was so very weary, surely you would not mourn, that I a little sooner should lay my burden down.

"Then weep not, weep not, Darling, God wipes away all tears; tis only a little way, though you may call it years." --Anonymous

Hope this helps a little bit,

Jeanne McDonald

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beamishboy — Sat, 09 May 2009 14:17:38 GMT

Ann, I can't tell you how many people have asked me about how you're doing since Bill passed. Thanks for the "public" update. The overwhelming response hasn't surprised me in the least - you are a special person who has touched and inspired many people.

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cuzzins — Sat, 09 May 2009 14:13:01 GMT

I am so glad to hear that you are starting to see a little light day by day. Rest assured that the community is behind you all the way. We have missed hearing from you week by week, but know in time, little by little, your routine will get easier. Our thoughts continue to be with you. Take care and welcome back.

Linda